Friday’s Fave Five

FFF snowflakes

It’s Friday, time to look back over the blessings of the week with Susanne at Living to Tell the Story and other friends.

Many of you know that we have cared for my husband’s mother in our home for the last 5 1/2 years. She has taken a sudden turn for the worse in the last few days, and it appears she is on the last stretch of her journey here. So this has been a difficult week in many respects. Because of that I almost didn’t do a FFF – I wasn’t sure if it would be appropriate. But it’s always appropriate to notice and thank God for blessings, large and small. So here are some of the brightest moments:

1. Catching up with an old friend. My husband’s pastor’s kids attended high school and college with him, and their family was like his second family. One of them was in town for an appointment earlier this week and asked if we could get together, so we had him here for lunch. It was so good to catch up with him and hear news of the rest of the family.

2. Frozen broth. When I made broth from the Christmas ham bone for ham and potato soup in December, I had a lot extra, so I put it in the freezer. It was nice to be able to pull that out for a special lunch with our friend. And I realized, as I was cutting up potatoes and thawing the broth, that I didn’t even have to add seasonings as that had already been done – another plus.

3. Encouraging words from friends at just the right moment.

4. Cleaning up bushes out front was on my husband’s agenda the last few weeks of December when he was off, but he wasn’t able to get to it. He spent last Saturday afternoon on them, and they look so much better.

5. God’s timing. Our church is reading through 1 Corinthians, and wouldn’t you know the great “resurrection chapter,” chapter 15, came up in our reading for today, when my m-i-l is in the worst condition she has been so far. Verse 26 calls death the last enemy. Whether it occurs suddenly, as with my mom, or in a slow decline, as with my husband’s mom, it’s awful either way. It is an enemy, and it’s ok to hate it. But the gospel in verses 3 and 4, that Christ died for our sins, was buried, and rose again, takes the “sting” out of death. We know, when she passes, that some day we’ll see her again, along with our other loved ones who have gone before, though we miss them til then.

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10 thoughts on “Friday’s Fave Five

  1. Prayers continue for your family, Barbara. I know how hard it is to watch the decline and death truly is the last enemy. How wonderful that you and Jim could have your friend over for lunch one day this week. Gotta love frozen broth! You can make a meal in a little bit of no time when you have it. xx

  2. I will pray for you and your husband as you go through this time.
    It IS good to give thanks to the Lord and allow your self to cling to all the good memories you have together.

    How wonderful you had a quick lunch for your friend who was visiting. Yum!!! I LOVE homemade soups.

    I will be prayIng for you throughout the weekend…and praise God she knows our Savior!!

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  4. Barbara, so sorry to hear of your MIL. My prayers are with you and your family and your MIL through this hard time. Thank you for sharing your blessings in this very difficult week especially that scripture!

  5. What you are experiencing is something I remember clearly. And, yes, we can hate death. But we remember, Death, where is your sting? We do not mourn as others do. But. We do mourn. I focused on Ps. 116.15. Praying for your comfort, Barbara.
    And I’m glad you did do the FFFs. It helps.

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